Menopause Woes
As many of you know, I had a full hysterectomy. With that surgery it sent my body into menopause. For the most part it has been bearable. It has been 4 months since the surgery and I feel like I…
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The Scare Of My Life, Brought Me Life
So I’m finally home after having one of the best times of my life yesterday. I’m catching up and reading my Essence magazine (the August edition with Idris Elba) and reading the stories of women who suffered strokes and all…
Beach Day aka Peace
So yesterday I had my annual beach day. What a great time. It was everything I needed and more. I went to Belmar Beach in Jersey. It’s super nice and not too crowded. Let’s talk about the things that was…
4 Weeks Almost Half Way There!
I finally have my date set to go back to work. Yay! I don’t even know how I’ll feel going back. All this time to recover and get my body and mind together I feel like I’m on a forever…
Jayz 4:44
So you know you heard about it. The new anticipated album of Jayz has hit and so have all of the reviews. So I’m not about to analyze every song and their meaning. However let’s get to the grit of…
Ask Toi: Can you leave your mate for a medical problem?
Yes you can leave for any reason. By mate, I assume you mean husband or wife. Traditional vows says in sickness and in health. That is a large undertaking. This leads to so many different levels of what sickness means….
Mommy Loves You Notes
Hey Mom this is for you. So I get it when your child goes off to the land of education there are far more things to be worried about. From their education; to their well being. In this day and…
Cleaning Up for the New Year
It’s almost time for a New Year! Now I know some people are either on team resolutions or they feel like it’s the dumbest thing ever to do. With that being said, we still need to take the time to…
Broke and Blessed
So the holidays have always reminded me of just how hard working my parents were and are. It reminds me of how blessed I really am. It’s no secret that at one point my family and I lived in a…
Keep your Hands to Yourself
We got to keep our hands to ourselves. So today while out grabbing breakfast before work I see a man shove a woman. I am livid. A man comes from the middle of nowhere and grabs this young man up…