Evaluate Your Life
I think doing check ins with yourself is important. It’s not just something you do when the New Year hits or on your birthday. A life check up and check in helps to reinforce your goals. So what do you…
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Ask Toi: What are my rights with my boyfriend while he’s in the hospital?!
To be honest girlfriends don’t have rights! I know that sounds harsh but….. it’s the truth! Even if you two live in the same house won’t matter in you making decisions because end of day, you’re not his wife. What…
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Boyfriend Drama
Having a boyfriend or girlfriend should be a nice welcomed addition to your life. It can be fun, exciting, and new. Sometimes when the newness wears off you may have a few things that lust allow you to check in…
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National Girlfriends Day
Happy national girlfriends day to all of my girlfriends. Girlfriends make life that much better! They are understanding, real, and dependable. They are the glue in your life that you never knew you needed. When I was in my 20s…
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The Complainer
Let me just say and acknowledge that I used to be the one that got on everyone’s nerves with complaining. I mean as much as I blamed everyone else for the inability to deal with it, the truth of the…
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Ask Toi: How do I handle my best friend who needed to stay with me but complains about my home?!
Welp if you are best friends people always assume that you should be able to freely speak on anything. To a certain degree that makes perfect sense but there are times that close friends will have to have difficult conversations….
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Sunday Message: “What She Said”
So today is turning out not quite how I had in mind. I’ve finally ate breakfast yet it’s clearly late lunch time right now. I woke up with the worst headache. I haven’t had a migraine like this in quite…
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Ask Toi: How Do you Tell your Friends to Watch their tone with you?
You have to just tell them. This notion of allowing folks in the name of friendship speak to you anyway suggests that you are keeping them even in an unhealthy state just to keep them around. That’s the same notion…
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Everything Ain’t About You
Listen I know that there are times when you can have sensitive spirits. It could be that you are going through a rough patch but please know that everything ain’t about you. There are times when you have to attempt…
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The Gift of Friendship
When I was deep in my postpartum depression I would cut off my friends. Right after the birth of my son after moving from Lancaster to Philadelphia I felt isolated. I was isolated because in my mind I had told…