Why I am not being nice to Side Chicks
Today is Side Chick Appreciation day. This is the day when the memes come out hard. I heard someone say that we should be nice to a side chick and this is my response to that, hell naw I won’t….
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Action Do Something
So let me just say that I have about had all I can take but I know that is not true because as time goes especially in the next day or so the complaints are going to take off. I…
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Bling and Foundations
As you know the holidays are a magical time. Everyone is buzzing around and being in the best moods for the most part. Gifts are getting purchased and wrapped. Egg nog is being enjoyed. This is also the time that…
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Ask Toi: Do I have to give someone a thank you card for a thank you card?
No you don’t ever need to give a thank you card for a thank you card. If you want to acknowledge that you received it than do that. You can do that with a call that is brief or a…
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It’s a Process! Helping kids Process Grief
Grief for kids is real. I can’t say that I have been my usual on top self. I have had bursts of my normal self but since the passing of my mother in law, life hasn’t been the same. One…
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“My married friends are worst than my single ones…”
I want to knock on wood, pray to baby Jesus the Black and the White one, go in a trance that I never have to know the betrayal of a husband in the form of another woman having my husband’s…
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Running on Zero Energy
There are so many moment in life that you find yourself running on E. You do all that you can do extend yourself to a million and one place and then you find out that you are just at a…
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Relationship Overhaul: Asking for too much too soon
Well here we go with more relationship questions from my Ask Toi. Again if you want to ask an anonymous question please do so on [email protected] Too Much, Too Soon? Today’s question comes from a young lady who wants to know…
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National Letting it GO Day!
Well I am the master or at least the one who knows the national list of days. Today is no different. Today is National Let it go day. What a great day to let things go. If you can read…
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Good-Bye Stress: Better Out than In
It’s not just Shrek who came up with that thinking of getting things out instead of holding things in. Learning to let things go and move forward are two concepts that are at times easier said than done. It’s so…
