Back to the Grind
Welcome back ToiTime followers. We had the smallest break in blogs ever, but a break is still a break right?! Well I am back to the grind like so many others. Today was the Mondayish Tuesday ever. Yeah I just…
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As Toi: Why is it seem that my boyfriend only needs me in tragedy?
There are a lot of determining factors. It could be just how you feel, it could be because your boyfriend isn’t one to show much emotion or the way you want him to express it, or he may just be…
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Cleaning Up for the New Year
It’s almost time for a New Year! Now I know some people are either on team resolutions or they feel like it’s the dumbest thing ever to do. With that being said, we still need to take the time to…
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Bling and Foundations
As you know the holidays are a magical time. Everyone is buzzing around and being in the best moods for the most part. Gifts are getting purchased and wrapped. Egg nog is being enjoyed. This is also the time that…
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Fake Marriages and Why?
So every last relationship on this planet is different. Not one is the same no matter how many similarities may exist. So my thing is that women do NOT need to be married. I know men are measured by their…
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Monday, Nope Not Today!
You ever have one of them days where things go left but you’re trying to press anyway. That is the day that I had this morning. I say had because in writing this I am releasing that negative energy into…
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Keep your Hands to Yourself
We got to keep our hands to ourselves. So today while out grabbing breakfast before work I see a man shove a woman. I am livid. A man comes from the middle of nowhere and grabs this young man up…
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Ask Toi: If you wanted to throw a party for a friend that is married or in a relationship, do you have to ask their mate first?
I would say out of respect you would. How do you know that the mate or significant other would want to be the one that plans it? Or what if they were taking your friend out-of-town? Back in the days…
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31 Days and Change is Coming-New Year
A New Year is coming! Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news or good news depending on how you see it, but a new Year is coming soon. I know everyone will wait until after Christmas to…
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Hurting the Kids
The kids should be off limits. So with the holidays in full swing we need to have a discussion about mixing families. It’s no secret that people are master manipulators. There is no fail proof way to determine if the…
