Surviving R. Kelly; My Thoughts
Let’s cut to the chase on this. There is so much to unravel! These are my thoughts: R. Kelly is a sick. He really is. There is zero doubt about that. No excuses!! No bull. It is what it is….
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Ask Toi: What do you think of Meek Mill saying women need to take wigs off in 2019?
A reader wanted to know my thoughts so here we go: Meh. A man telling a woman about hair is neither here nor there to be honest. Meek can have any opinion he wants. He has a right to voice…
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Ask Toi: A man I’ve been dating for months has gone stale in communication, what should I do?
This sounds like he’s ghosting you. Ghosting is when someone you’re dating or dealing with no longer answers calls or text messages and is unavailable. First of all, understand that some folks avoid difficult conversations. He is definitely not interested…
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Christmas Self-Care
It’s Christmas! Time to break out the food and fun! For some the holidays don’t always represent love and harmony. This holiday often is the hardest for many reasons! With that in mind I’m giving you a few tips to…
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Monday Motivation: Christmas Edition
As the holidays are exactly 8 days away one of the things that I have changed is not waiting until the last-minute for everything. I have a few things to do but I am not allowing any of it to…
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Sunday Message: Stand in your Own Light
There’s so much expectations going on. I’m watching a lot of current events and hearing debates on all types of things. One thing to keep in mind is allowing people to find their way and stay in their own light….
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Monday Motivation: Movement Necessary
It’s another Monday! Another week! Another chance to make our lives the best that we can. It’s a time to reset and refocus. So many of us start our Monday’s complaining. I get it. You had no real work responsibility…
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How Long Should You Continue to Make Excuses for Adults?
I saw this question posed and it intrigued me. So examples of excuses for adults could be that family member that is always in and out of jail. The notion to say well they had a rough up bringing so…
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Operating In Offense
So today I was reminded of what it looks like to operate in offense. Operating in offense is when you are so offended by someone or something that you can’t hear what others are saying to you. You are snippy, rude,…
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What a wicked way to treat the girl that loves you
So I’m out and about today. While out a woman is behind me talking to another woman. The one woman asks where her husband was. Her answer was he just started chemotherapy and he’s home. So I’m like wow Lord…
