Networking is Scary At Times
So I wanted to talk about networking. It’s essential to what I do with blogging especially if you want to get out about. Your talent will take you in front of amazing people. In order to stay you have to…
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Ask Toi: What do I do with an ex that won’t stop contacting me?
Ex boyfriend and ex girlfriends can vary from easy-going to super annoying. I would suggest if the communication is unwanted tell him/her. Direct communication from your part in order to get direct no contact should work. However if your ex…
Ask Toi: My Husband Says I Mother Him, How do I stop this behavior?
You will only stop what you accept is bad behavior. Your husband can tell you that you are mothering him but if you make excuses, it won’t change. You are not his mother but is wife. You can’t expect this…
Ask Toi: Do you think people should go to counseling before having Children?
Yes and no. I think that if you have had things happen in your childhood that affects your ability to raise your children then yes. If once you have children you notice things that come up, by all means run…
The Complainer
Let me just say and acknowledge that I used to be the one that got on everyone’s nerves with complaining. I mean as much as I blamed everyone else for the inability to deal with it, the truth of the…
National Compliment Day
Today is national compliment day. I am sure you knew that right? Well let’s talk about them. I know we all love to get them. They make you feel warm, beautiful and confident. However there are a few things to…
Ask Toi: How do I encourage the love of my life to do the old things they once did?
This is a very sensitive subject. Often times women and men can lose their way when it comes to keeping the spark lit. One of the things to keep in mind is to look at what may have happened that…
Marriage and Her Own Empire
So I was watching Starz’s Survivors Remorse and on the show Missy Vaughn played by Teyonah Parris and Reggie Vaughn played by RonReaco Lee are married. It came out after Reggie was playing cards and lost $123,000 with “big wigs,”…
Fall Workout/Weight Goals
So Fall is going to be here in a few days. Yes. So I can stop hearing all of those complaining folks talking about relax. Nope now you can go and relax. Let people live. Let the Fall lovers have…
Recommitment 2017
So May is over. It’s been a great month for me but it’s time to get new goals for June. Another thing happening this June is we are officially at the half way mark to ending 2017. Time is flying….