2019 Let’s Get It
So we all have goals. I believe in doing daily, weekly, monthly and of course yearly goals. I told you I am the type that carries around 2 planners. One for my life and family life and the other just…
evaluate life
What are you Grateful for?
The only time we talk about gratefulness is around Thanksgiving. You hear everyone repeat what they are grateful for. If you come from a big family as I do, by the time Aunt Sally speaks her gratefulness you’re almost tapped…
Cat Fight Chronicles
You know there’s a thing about women being catty. Not all women but quite a few. The reason in my opinion as to why there are so many catty women in the world is that we don’t have enough women who…
Nancy you have got to go…
You ever meet a real life negative Nancy? The one who complains about the sun being in the sky. They always have some rebuttal for everything you say. They are dissatisfied in their own lives and the only time they…
Why I am not being nice to Side Chicks
Today is Side Chick Appreciation day. This is the day when the memes come out hard. I heard someone say that we should be nice to a side chick and this is my response to that, hell naw I won’t….
Action Do Something
So let me just say that I have about had all I can take but I know that is not true because as time goes especially in the next day or so the complaints are going to take off. I…
Soul Cycle, 2nd Coming…
So if you follow me on Instagram then you know that I have increased my healthy living incentive. I have been working hard and thus far I have lost over 20 pounds since I began over 6 months ago. How…
Ask Toi: If you wanted to throw a party for a friend that is married or in a relationship, do you have to ask their mate first?
I would say out of respect you would. How do you know that the mate or significant other would want to be the one that plans it? Or what if they were taking your friend out-of-town? Back in the days…
31 Days and Change is Coming-New Year
A New Year is coming! Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news or good news depending on how you see it, but a new Year is coming soon. I know everyone will wait until after Christmas to…
It’s a Process! Helping kids Process Grief
Grief for kids is real. I can’t say that I have been my usual on top self. I have had bursts of my normal self but since the passing of my mother in law, life hasn’t been the same. One…