Adult Not Grown
I finally get it. Shout out to my parents, Charles and Rhonda but I finally get it. All the times I was yelling out how “grown” I was and my parents would come behind my rant, and burst my bubble,…
good times
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Ear Muffs
I respond to things that I am passionate about. The things that affect my here and now or my and my kids future. I respond to the petty things of the world sometimes and have to remind myself constantly to…
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No Accounts
So one of my favorite cousins had a conversation about no accounts. When we first started talking it was about no account mammies. Yes I said mammies. No account mammies are the moms who have kids and don’t take care…
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Why Am I Pushing Self Care/Self Love?
If you follow me on Twitter and you should (Toitimeblog) I am really pushing others as well as myself to really think about what it is they need to make them see, feel and know that they are loved. This…
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Nancy you have got to go…
You ever meet a real life negative Nancy? The one who complains about the sun being in the sky. They always have some rebuttal for everything you say. They are dissatisfied in their own lives and the only time they…
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Warm Weather Mixes
So if you live in the East you may have experienced some unseasonably warm weather lately. Let me encourage your heart, it’s not the real Spring. So although I say get out and enjoy it, there a few things to…
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Lazy Ass Friends
So let me make my disclaimer early. This is not to be used to have a bunch of friends texting, emailing, or calling me to find out what they may or may not have done. If it don’t apply let…
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Bling and Foundations
As you know the holidays are a magical time. Everyone is buzzing around and being in the best moods for the most part. Gifts are getting purchased and wrapped. Egg nog is being enjoyed. This is also the time that…
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Ask Toi: If you wanted to throw a party for a friend that is married or in a relationship, do you have to ask their mate first?
I would say out of respect you would. How do you know that the mate or significant other would want to be the one that plans it? Or what if they were taking your friend out-of-town? Back in the days…
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31 Days and Change is Coming-New Year
A New Year is coming! Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news or good news depending on how you see it, but a new Year is coming soon. I know everyone will wait until after Christmas to…
