Sunday Message: That’s Just How they Are…
Listen there are a number of folks that do not like me. I am okay with it. The feeling may even be mutual. However what I won’t tolerate is mistreatment of kids whether they mine or not. Kids will forever…
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Summer Recap
So Labor Day means it’s officially unofficially the end of Summer. I want to thank all of my tan lines that kept this melanin poppin! FYI black folks will tan or get darker like anyone exposed to the sun. Skin…
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Pressure
Pressure makes diamonds. It’s a hard process. Pressure in our lives can do amazing things. It can be the fire you needed to start a new business or to help you to reach a deadline. It’s necessary and usually it’s…
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Breastfeeding Month: The Real
So happy breastfeeding to all the mommas who have chosen to embark on the journey. Let me say now that my only major concern for babies is that they are healthy and are fed. I have 3 kids and they…
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To Toi or Not to Toi…Throw her back edition
My kids when see me jamming out to an “old skool” jam always ask how was I before kids? I always laugh and tell them I was super fun. I was but I try to incorporate that into my present…
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Ask Toi: How do I deal with my Parents thinking I’m not following old school parenting with my own kids?!
This is multilayered. This could have come up if you’re making comments about new school parenting is better. It can come up if you do something that an old school parent thinks is too new school. It could come up…
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Love is…A Reality Check
Momma can call your shit out like no one else. You can pretend for anyone but yo momma and this episode sweet Jesus didn’t come to play. Man that don’t take care of his family…. One kudos to Nuri for…
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To church or not to church… your choice but heal from past hurt!
I get a lot of people are hurt by the church body. If you don’t understand what church body that means that 9 times out of 10 they went to a church who has left a bad taste in their…
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Wholeness in all levels of life
It’s Summer time. Ladies you are going to be hit on even more than before. I don’t care if you have on a dress that looks like a curtain its coming. With Summer fling in the air let me help…
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Sunday Message: Keeping your Spirit Elevated
Now let me be clear being in high spirits is important. It’s the ability to move past how you feel even when you have low moments. It also means at moments when you fail, moments when you lose or experience…