Ask Toi: Hump Day Edition
The question is how does our reader communicate to her boyfriend that he needs to stop promising the world to her during sex… Well this is a good problem to have. In one sense know that during sex a man…
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Sunday Message: Stop Fighting
When I was younger I didn’t get into a lot of fights but the ones that I did get into I definitely finished them. Fighting back in the day was a means of survival. I definitely wasn’t the one to…
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Ask Toi: Personal Questions Part 2
So as promised here is part 2 of the personal questions that readers ask me #AskToi questions. Remember if you have questions about relationships, friendship, dating, work, and anything in between, send the email [email protected] How often do you argue…
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Ask Toi: Personal Questions Answered Part 1
I have said before when doing these Ask Toi when it comes to personal questions I reserve the right to not answer questions that I feel are too personal in nature. I will answer what I can when I see…
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Surviving R. Kelly; My Thoughts
Let’s cut to the chase on this. There is so much to unravel! These are my thoughts: R. Kelly is a sick. He really is. There is zero doubt about that. No excuses!! No bull. It is what it is….
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Ask Toi: A man I’ve been dating for months has gone stale in communication, what should I do?
This sounds like he’s ghosting you. Ghosting is when someone you’re dating or dealing with no longer answers calls or text messages and is unavailable. First of all, understand that some folks avoid difficult conversations. He is definitely not interested…
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Christmas Self-Care
It’s Christmas! Time to break out the food and fun! For some the holidays don’t always represent love and harmony. This holiday often is the hardest for many reasons! With that in mind I’m giving you a few tips to…
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Sunday Message: Stand in your Own Light
There’s so much expectations going on. I’m watching a lot of current events and hearing debates on all types of things. One thing to keep in mind is allowing people to find their way and stay in their own light….
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Monday Motivation: Movement Necessary
It’s another Monday! Another week! Another chance to make our lives the best that we can. It’s a time to reset and refocus. So many of us start our Monday’s complaining. I get it. You had no real work responsibility…
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Christmas Fun: Story time with the Polar Express
So not bad for a Friday night but we decided to go to the Barnes and Nobles story time of the Polar Express reading by Chris Van Allsburg for the 30th celebration!! The reading included hot chocolate and cookies and…
