Flex Your No Muscles
I have to share a little battle with ya’ll. One because I need to get it off my chest and the other is because I just want to. I don’t get it. I have some really great friends. It’s the…
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Bling and Foundations
As you know the holidays are a magical time. Everyone is buzzing around and being in the best moods for the most part. Gifts are getting purchased and wrapped. Egg nog is being enjoyed. This is also the time that…
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Fake Marriages and Why?
So every last relationship on this planet is different. Not one is the same no matter how many similarities may exist. So my thing is that women do NOT need to be married. I know men are measured by their…
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Ask Toi: If you wanted to throw a party for a friend that is married or in a relationship, do you have to ask their mate first?
I would say out of respect you would. How do you know that the mate or significant other would want to be the one that plans it? Or what if they were taking your friend out-of-town? Back in the days…
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31 Days and Change is Coming-New Year
A New Year is coming! Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news or good news depending on how you see it, but a new Year is coming soon. I know everyone will wait until after Christmas to…
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My Thankfulness
I know that is clichéd but the reality is for those who celebrate it, it really is about being grateful. It’s the one time of the year where you hold all the sour faces would perk up. We know you…
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How to Survive Thanksgiving with Annoying Family Members
You can’t choose your family and not even for Thanksgiving. At least that’s what they tell me. So what happens when you don’t feel like hearing Aunt Sally that don’t ever have her own crap together come questioning you on…
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It’s a Process! Helping kids Process Grief
Grief for kids is real. I can’t say that I have been my usual on top self. I have had bursts of my normal self but since the passing of my mother in law, life hasn’t been the same. One…
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You having a boy?
Ladies, ladies, ladies, this is one of those questions that if you are expecting a bundle of joy you semi welcome. Not when you step on the scale at the doctors and they tell you lost a total of 12…
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By Any Means Necessary… Women Traditional Work
I used to seriously judge other women. Gasp. Yes little ole me. My judgement had a lot to do with the non traditional ways that women have made their living. What I mean about that is things like prostitution, marrying…
