Everything isn’t What it Seems
I want to highlight a few things. I’ve said it before and I will say it again, things on social media can look grande and be filled with so much smoke screen. Yes that is how life rolls. However keep…
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Ask Toi: My fiancé wants to invite a “friend” that she friend zoned in her past, how do I tell her no without looking jealous?
For those who don’t understand the concept of friend zone that is when someone male or female has pretty much politely rejected any advances that you give off. This is the polite way to keep the buddy and the booty…
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Ask Toi: How do you deal with someone who Deflects all the time?
Consistency and straightforwardness. There is no other way. You will have to find a way not to be like the person you are dealing with. Be clear and concise. Say what you mean and mean what you say. People who…
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Martin Luther King Jr. Would be Disappointed
So today is MLK day. The day we remember the teachings and words that Dr. King’s legacy was supposed to enlighten us to do. Dr. King faced adversity and his message was clear that we change how we interact with…
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I was therefore I am…own your …. edition
So we are in the New Year and so many of us are trying to be positive and make change. With that in mind we have to be honest about what we have done or do that contribute to some…
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How many days for Your Yes?
So I wanted to get this blog all ready for motivational Monday but life is funny. Between the kids being out of school for all but one day last week, they ended up with a half a day yesterday. This…
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Depression, I feel a Whole Lot Better
Oh how depression shows up. Today I had the honor of attending the Black Girls Run brunch where we celebrated our 2017 accomplishments of run, health, and fitness. Many of the women ran themselves from needing medication to control diabetes,…
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If it ain’t funny, ain’t no LOL!!
So let’s dive right in. Sometimes you are stuck between being yourself which may include being vocal or direct and then when you’re working on yourself to be a better person you second guess yourself. Something so simple can make…
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How I Started My New Year
So we have officially made it into 2018!! That in itself is a blessing! There are so many that didn’t see it! With that gratitude in mind is how I started the New Year! New Year Goals Yes I had…
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Check On Others
So it’s that time of the year where people are hurting bad. They are sad, depressed, angry, struggling and all kind of negative. Check in on others without having to wait until you get the tea of someone’s life. You…
