Ask Toi: Friends and Cheating Ways?
This is a bit much. It’s one thing for your husband’s friend to cheat on his wife. That’s his choice but to have your husband basically aid him is not cool. Cheating is a choice just don’t involve your friends….
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He Said…She Said
So my wedding anniversary is next Friday August 2nd! Yay! We will celebrate 7 years of marriage! With that being said I am doing a he said..she said series! This series will be done with none other than my husband…
National Celebrate Your Marriage
Marriage is beautiful. You see couples all in love holding hands and with their kissy face and that’s the images people tend to hold onto! What they don’t see in the background is the work it takes to keep a…
Ask Toi: How to Forgive a Cheating Parent?
Reader’s father cheated on their mother and reader needs help…. It’s hard to not have your parent on a peddlestool especially a father. As a kid you may have been sheltered from the things that were really going on. That’s understandable,…
Ask Toi: I cheated and my husband holds it over my head, should I leave?
I can’t give you that answer. I wonder if you two have done the work to heal. If you have been seeing a counselor and you have talked or are talking it out I would say let it run its…
Valentine’s Day Message
I would like to say Happy Valentine‘ Day to all who celebrate this holiday. Sending you love and peace today and everyday. For my Husband To my husband, I love you! Another year of love to push through this…
Mature Love
Let’s face it with the wave of reality television society obviously loves drama. We thrive on. We take it in. We gravitate towards it. In the last 2 years I have taken on a journey to dismiss a lot of…
Operating In Offense
So today I was reminded of what it looks like to operate in offense. Operating in offense is when you are so offended by someone or something that you can’t hear what others are saying to you. You are snippy, rude,…
Ask Toi: How do I handle my ex-husband when I’ve asked him to clean his home before the kids come for their visits?
Back story for my readers is they have a custody order to split time. It’s been working. The problem is the kids are old enough to verbally state that not only is the home unclean but its more or less…
Ask Toi: My Husband Says I Mother Him, How do I stop this behavior?
You will only stop what you accept is bad behavior. Your husband can tell you that you are mothering him but if you make excuses, it won’t change. You are not his mother but is wife. You can’t expect this…