Summer Recap
So Labor Day means it’s officially unofficially the end of Summer. I want to thank all of my tan lines that kept this melanin poppin! FYI black folks will tan or get darker like anyone exposed to the sun. Skin…
womanhood
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Pressure
Pressure makes diamonds. It’s a hard process. Pressure in our lives can do amazing things. It can be the fire you needed to start a new business or to help you to reach a deadline. It’s necessary and usually it’s…
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Love is….Forever?
Whew!! How Derrick gon show up on the scene like that! I mean typical man who is out here doing his thing and now Derrick wants to get back and came with a ring! My mouth dropped! Like how in…
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Boyfriend Drama
Having a boyfriend or girlfriend should be a nice welcomed addition to your life. It can be fun, exciting, and new. Sometimes when the newness wears off you may have a few things that lust allow you to check in…
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Love is….Misunderstanding
Whew! That’s all I got! It started off tonight in so much love! Then it dipped into the abyss of foolery and real quick. End of day when you are in a relationship and one or both are unfulfilled it…
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Breastfeeding Month: The Real
So happy breastfeeding to all the mommas who have chosen to embark on the journey. Let me say now that my only major concern for babies is that they are healthy and are fed. I have 3 kids and they…
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To Toi or Not to Toi…Throw her back edition
My kids when see me jamming out to an “old skool” jam always ask how was I before kids? I always laugh and tell them I was super fun. I was but I try to incorporate that into my present…
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Ask Toi: How do I deal with my Parents thinking I’m not following old school parenting with my own kids?!
This is multilayered. This could have come up if you’re making comments about new school parenting is better. It can come up if you do something that an old school parent thinks is too new school. It could come up…
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Love is…A Reality Check
Momma can call your shit out like no one else. You can pretend for anyone but yo momma and this episode sweet Jesus didn’t come to play. Man that don’t take care of his family…. One kudos to Nuri for…
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Fizzle Chronicles
Oh love you are amazing! You give me goosebumps! You make me feel like I can do anything! Ever have that feeling? It’s amazing isn’t it?! However if you really been in love with the right one you know there…