Protect your Babies-Step it up!
I was watching a video of a judge that was reprimanding a couple. The mother of the child that was brutally beat and killed was held responsible too for the heinous death as she should be. However the part that…
dating advice
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Ask Toi: My boyfriend is calling me little cute names and its irking me but this is a new relationship and I don’t want to mess it up, what should I do?
The very point of new love is to get to know someone. If you telling your boyfriend that you don’t like something is an issue this relationship will not last. Relationships are give and take. Sometimes you have to speak…
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What your Married Friends Won’t Tell You
So I am going to a wedding today. I know without a doubt this union is just going to be a beautiful celebration of two people who really do love each other and who are both committed to being there…
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No Accounts
So one of my favorite cousins had a conversation about no accounts. When we first started talking it was about no account mammies. Yes I said mammies. No account mammies are the moms who have kids and don’t take care…
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Ask Toi: I am dating a woman and I am a woman and my girlfriend is very controlling..says that shes been better than anyone male or female and I should deal, what is your advice?
It doesn’t matter to me that you are a woman dating another woman. No relationship should be so demanding and controlling. If it makes you uncomfortable than it should be heard and followed through with change, period. Just because a…
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Insomnia, ToiTime’s Way: Valentine’s Day Warning
Okay picture this it was 2005 and I had been out of college for a few years. So I had met my Mr. Right Now and he had me in an outer body experience. I hadn’t introduced him to my…
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Let Love Be Great!
So this is the weekend when most people will take their significant others out and show them love. Let me just say that everyone doesn’t celebrate this “man-made” holiday however let me encourage all in a few home keeping details….
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Loving the One You’re With is Old…
I know age is a number so that is not at all what we are talking about today. We are talking about loving on someone who doesn’t serve a purpose. Its played out. It’s draining. It’s delusional to say the…
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Emotional Taxes
So today was something like an epic fail of sorts emotionally. I can’t put my finger on one event that set me off but once I was there, it was hard to retreat. I have been writing in my journal for…
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Bling and Foundations
As you know the holidays are a magical time. Everyone is buzzing around and being in the best moods for the most part. Gifts are getting purchased and wrapped. Egg nog is being enjoyed. This is also the time that…
