Loving the One You’re With is Old…
I know age is a number so that is not at all what we are talking about today. We are talking about loving on someone who doesn’t serve a purpose. Its played out. It’s draining. It’s delusional to say the…
Dating
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Emotional Taxes
So today was something like an epic fail of sorts emotionally. I can’t put my finger on one event that set me off but once I was there, it was hard to retreat. I have been writing in my journal for…
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As Toi: Why is it seem that my boyfriend only needs me in tragedy?
There are a lot of determining factors. It could be just how you feel, it could be because your boyfriend isn’t one to show much emotion or the way you want him to express it, or he may just be…
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Ask Toi: How do I resolve an argument with my husband regarding holiday traditions?
Simple. When you are married you both are coming from 2 different backgrounds. Even if you have similar backgrounds, the way you are both used to things will be different. Find out what means the most to the both of…
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Ask Toi: If you wanted to throw a party for a friend that is married or in a relationship, do you have to ask their mate first?
I would say out of respect you would. How do you know that the mate or significant other would want to be the one that plans it? Or what if they were taking your friend out-of-town? Back in the days…
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31 Days and Change is Coming-New Year
A New Year is coming! Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news or good news depending on how you see it, but a new Year is coming soon. I know everyone will wait until after Christmas to…
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Husband vs. Hubby
There really is no debate. A husband and hubby aren’t one in the same. I see so many women who have these long-term boyfriends calling him “my hubby”. Okay let’s break this down. This “hubby” of yours is someone you…
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Ask Toi: If he’s not Prince Charming than what?
That’s a question you need to ask and answer for yourself. What does prince charming look like for you? To some it based upon more physical attributes than anything else. You have to think and know what you want. Knowing…
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Ask Toi: Why is it seem my married friends always down me because I am not married?
There is a sense of accomplishment when a woman gets married. I’m not saying all women but a lot of them think that having a wedding ring and a marriage that means they have arrived. What you have arrived to…
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#RIPKendra
Have you ever heard of the Kendra story? I am seeing this hashtag all over twitter. I go and read it and I am taken back. A woman killed another woman over a man. Now we all know that this…
