Self Care/Self Improvement
September is a lot of things. I don’t know what it is about September but its a jammed pack month. However this month is self-care and self-improvement month. So if you follow this blog, and on any social media feed…
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5 Lessons: Happy 5th Anniversary
So today is the day. Do you know what today is? It’s our anniversary. Yes finally we have made it to year 5 and whew God is merciful because we almost didn’t get here. Marriage is hard work. People make…
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Our Engagement Story: October 16, 2010 (Sweetest Day)
So on October 15, 2010 my friend Colleen came to pick me up. She had called me several times before about the birthday party I was supposed to attend for my boyfriend at the time’s uncle birthday. I really want…
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Learn From All This Usher Mess
I’ve seen some pretty good memes from all the Usher reported Herpes talk. However my message is simple women asked him reportedly and he said he was fine. Now I don’t know if it was because he was Usher that…
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Silent Treatments is Abuse
I got a letter or email I should say from a reader who is experiencing this. Holidays are great but the holidays regardless of what it is for brings out the worst in others. My prayer to my reader as…
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Jayz 4:44
So you know you heard about it. The new anticipated album of Jayz has hit and so have all of the reviews. So I’m not about to analyze every song and their meaning. However let’s get to the grit of…
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Ask Toi: What should I do if someone from my past or new love interest knocks and I’m already connected?!
If you’re already connected and the interested person doesn’t know you need to tell them. If they know but still pushing up than know they just like the chase and want to see if you will take the bait. As…
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When Basics are Celebrated
Please do not get me wrong. I think anyone doing anything positive is good news. I love that people are attempting to move past the backward thinking that has seemed to take this world over. However, can we just be…
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No Accounts
So one of my favorite cousins had a conversation about no accounts. When we first started talking it was about no account mammies. Yes I said mammies. No account mammies are the moms who have kids and don’t take care…
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Ask Toi: Do I tell my husband his perfect friend is hitting on me?
Yes. There’s no way around it. Perfect in whomever eyes he still is perfectly wrong. Now to my readers the back story is this perfect friend of my reader’s husband adores his wife publicly on social media and appears to…
