Why I am not being nice to Side Chicks
Today is Side Chick Appreciation day. This is the day when the memes come out hard. I heard someone say that we should be nice to a side chick and this is my response to that, hell naw I won’t….
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Moving in Silence
So you are moving along on your goals but you find you are getting discouraged. A part of that could be life. Another part of reaching goals that makes things a bit difficult is when you don’t master the art…
Lazy Ass Friends
So let me make my disclaimer early. This is not to be used to have a bunch of friends texting, emailing, or calling me to find out what they may or may not have done. If it don’t apply let…
Fake Marriages and Why?
So every last relationship on this planet is different. Not one is the same no matter how many similarities may exist. So my thing is that women do NOT need to be married. I know men are measured by their…
Ask Toi: If you wanted to throw a party for a friend that is married or in a relationship, do you have to ask their mate first?
I would say out of respect you would. How do you know that the mate or significant other would want to be the one that plans it? Or what if they were taking your friend out-of-town? Back in the days…
It’s a Process! Helping kids Process Grief
Grief for kids is real. I can’t say that I have been my usual on top self. I have had bursts of my normal self but since the passing of my mother in law, life hasn’t been the same. One…
What I don’t like about Blogging
I love blogging let me say that right now. I really do but and there is always a but that blogging brings up a lot of things. For me it’s so easy to just start writing or typing. It’s like…
Finding the Little Things
So I haven’t blogged in a few days. However in the last days things have turned dramatically worst for my mother in law. I am not ready to fully blog about the experience but I will. I am learning a…
Running on Zero Energy
There are so many moment in life that you find yourself running on E. You do all that you can do extend yourself to a million and one place and then you find out that you are just at a…
Relationship Overhaul: Asking for too much too soon
Well here we go with more relationship questions from my Ask Toi. Again if you want to ask an anonymous question please do so on [email protected] Too Much, Too Soon? Today’s question comes from a young lady who wants to know…