Operating In Offense
So today I was reminded of what it looks like to operate in offense. Operating in offense is when you are so offended by someone or something that you can’t hear what others are saying to you. You are snippy, rude,…
feeling alone
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Power in the Clouds…..
So I am feeling a lot better. I was under the weather taking care of my sick husband and I ended up getting what he had. I do not think it was the flu as I was able to recover…
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Ask Toi: How Do I Work Through Loneliness?
Its hard. Let’s acknowledge that. Sometimes we dive into things so I wanted to acknowledge that frustrating feeling. It can be an uneasy feeling to feel like you have no one in your court. In order to work through it…
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No Accounts
So one of my favorite cousins had a conversation about no accounts. When we first started talking it was about no account mammies. Yes I said mammies. No account mammies are the moms who have kids and don’t take care…
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Ask Toi: My husband cheated and now wants to go to counseling after months of asking. I don’t want to go now because I feel like it’s after the point. I also don’t want to sit and hear about how sorry he is now when I don’t believe him….
Well first of all let me say how sorry I am that you have been put in this situation. First of all let me acknowledge that how you feel is real and honest. I am quite sure that was your…
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Lazy Ass Friends
So let me make my disclaimer early. This is not to be used to have a bunch of friends texting, emailing, or calling me to find out what they may or may not have done. If it don’t apply let…
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Finding the Little Things
So I haven’t blogged in a few days. However in the last days things have turned dramatically worst for my mother in law. I am not ready to fully blog about the experience but I will. I am learning a…
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Evaluate my life when I feel in Shambles…
Self evaluation of your life should happen often. How often is up to you. For me I always have a plan so I may look at things weekly if not daily. It’s not that I am attempting to carry the…
