The Mirage is really A smoke Screen
People, good people, good morning. Listen let’s have a serious talk about what appears to be and what is. We ALL have put out into the atmosphere our very best self. We post the best pics out of the 100…
gratefulness
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No Accounts
So one of my favorite cousins had a conversation about no accounts. When we first started talking it was about no account mammies. Yes I said mammies. No account mammies are the moms who have kids and don’t take care…
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Why Am I Pushing Self Care/Self Love?
If you follow me on Twitter and you should (Toitimeblog) I am really pushing others as well as myself to really think about what it is they need to make them see, feel and know that they are loved. This…
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Women’s Month: Who is KJM?
I have had the unique opportunity to come across some really unique blogs over the years. I find that I usually lean more towards the one that tell it like it is. I am not saying I don’t like the…
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Cat Fight Chronicles
You know there’s a thing about women being catty. Not all women but quite a few. The reason in my opinion as to why there are so many catty women in the world is that we don’t have enough women who…
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Natural is not a Phase
If you look around in the African-American community you see so many embracing themselves for the first time. It’s a beautiful thing. It’s not a phase for most. This is the time to really embrace yourself in all of your…
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Action Do Something
So let me just say that I have about had all I can take but I know that is not true because as time goes especially in the next day or so the complaints are going to take off. I…
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Bling and Foundations
As you know the holidays are a magical time. Everyone is buzzing around and being in the best moods for the most part. Gifts are getting purchased and wrapped. Egg nog is being enjoyed. This is also the time that…
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My Thankfulness
I know that is clichéd but the reality is for those who celebrate it, it really is about being grateful. It’s the one time of the year where you hold all the sour faces would perk up. We know you…
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It’s a Process! Helping kids Process Grief
Grief for kids is real. I can’t say that I have been my usual on top self. I have had bursts of my normal self but since the passing of my mother in law, life hasn’t been the same. One…
