Who’s Not Sleeping These Days?
I have been in quarantine not sleeping well. I know it has so much to do with the fact that we have so much stress going on with all of this Covid-19 talk. People are dying, the virus is super…
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What Not to Stress Over During COVID-19 Times
We don’t have to have it altogether. I have seen the memes and yes if you are a creator or someone who is thriving on one front you may have the ability to create or acquire more skills. It may…
Monday Motivation: Light a Fire
Light a fire today. Never let others control your outcome. We do too much complaining about things that aren’t right and not enough making moves. You don’t like your job? Light a fire……under you. Not the job! Get a new…
Women History Month: Tameeka W. and Kenisha W.C.
Happy Women History Month! Being in business for yourself is really the way to go. You can be your own boss, set your own goals, and manage your life better than having to work for someone else. One of the…
One Month Down
I think ever since I was a kid I struggled with the idea of being a perfectionist. It plagued me my whole life. I figured since I was good at being a student this was what I had to do….
Don’t Dim your Light
We hear this often yet we still do it or allow others to do it. It’s easy to live under the radar than to let your light shine. As A PK (preacher’s kid) we would sing this little light of…
2019 Let’s Get It
So we all have goals. I believe in doing daily, weekly, monthly and of course yearly goals. I told you I am the type that carries around 2 planners. One for my life and family life and the other just…
Operating In Offense
So today I was reminded of what it looks like to operate in offense. Operating in offense is when you are so offended by someone or something that you can’t hear what others are saying to you. You are snippy, rude,…
Ask Toi: How do I handle my ex-husband when I’ve asked him to clean his home before the kids come for their visits?
Back story for my readers is they have a custody order to split time. It’s been working. The problem is the kids are old enough to verbally state that not only is the home unclean but its more or less…
What I love about Thanksgiving
This is not a drill it’s Thanksgiving time. We are exactly one week away. I can’t wait. I love to eat. I love Thanksgiving for a few reasons. A lot of them has to do with how people act. It’s…