My Go To’s of Social Media
So you know that social media can be a blessing and a curse. If you are on it to compare your life you will immediately fall into a state of depression and that is something you do not want to…
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My Birthday/Mother’s Day Wish List
So as you should know especially if you are a follower of mine is that my birthday I call it Toibration. First of all I love my name, hence the blog name. Two I love to celebrate things and let…
Women’s History Month: Jasmine D.
Jasmine Drake is 32 years old. from Philadelphia, Pa, but she currently resides in California. She made the move to California with Ty (her hubby) about 4 years ago. Jasmine and Ty have been together for almost 17 years. She…
Women’s Month Preview
I enjoy women’s month! It’s one of the biggest traffic months. A lot of people have asked me why do I do the posts for the full month?! Simple, why not give a regular women a month to shine? March…
Ask Toi: How do I encourage the love of my life to do the old things they once did?
This is a very sensitive subject. Often times women and men can lose their way when it comes to keeping the spark lit. One of the things to keep in mind is to look at what may have happened that…
What are you Grateful for?
The only time we talk about gratefulness is around Thanksgiving. You hear everyone repeat what they are grateful for. If you come from a big family as I do, by the time Aunt Sally speaks her gratefulness you’re almost tapped…
Protect your Spirit
Happy Monday to you. Happy I am just making it Monday. Happy I am alive Monday. Whatever your Monday looks like to you, make it that and rise above it. Yes the weekend has left some of us dry. If…
Our Engagement Story: October 16, 2010 (Sweetest Day)
So on October 15, 2010 my friend Colleen came to pick me up. She had called me several times before about the birthday party I was supposed to attend for my boyfriend at the time’s uncle birthday. I really want…
I Got You Ma…
Well where I live it’s about to be a nice 90 degrees. This is a signal to every female of what to expect in the coming months. It doesn’t matter if you’re single, married, or an alien, if you are…
Weekly Recap: April 14, 2017
Happy Friday ToiTime readers!! Can you hear the joy in my voice? That is what happens when you have been working 12 hour days all week and you finally get over 9 hours of sleep. I am refreshed and will…