National Reconciliation Day
It’s a beautiful thing to discover a fault. It’s also one thing recognize the wrong doing but to also make a conscience decision to not only to say sorry but to turn from the fault and do the right thing…
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Increased Self Care
Who doesn’t love getting a mani/pedi? How about a salon trip? It feels amazing to pamper yourself or just continue your up keep. As much as these activities are awesome and can be forms of self-care, do not limit that…
Valentine’s Day Message
I would like to say Happy Valentine‘ Day to all who celebrate this holiday. Sending you love and peace today and everyday. For my Husband To my husband, I love you! Another year of love to push through this…
Mature Love
Let’s face it with the wave of reality television society obviously loves drama. We thrive on. We take it in. We gravitate towards it. In the last 2 years I have taken on a journey to dismiss a lot of…
One Month Down
I think ever since I was a kid I struggled with the idea of being a perfectionist. It plagued me my whole life. I figured since I was good at being a student this was what I had to do….
Don’t Dim your Light
We hear this often yet we still do it or allow others to do it. It’s easy to live under the radar than to let your light shine. As A PK (preacher’s kid) we would sing this little light of…
Monday Motivation: Take one Step
This morning I had to remind myself to get up before my family. Not just because of my work schedule but to set the tone. I got up and prepared the house and got everything aligned. That initial thought when…
2019 Let’s Get It
So we all have goals. I believe in doing daily, weekly, monthly and of course yearly goals. I told you I am the type that carries around 2 planners. One for my life and family life and the other just…
Ask Toi: My Husband Says I Mother Him, How do I stop this behavior?
You will only stop what you accept is bad behavior. Your husband can tell you that you are mothering him but if you make excuses, it won’t change. You are not his mother but is wife. You can’t expect this…
Sunday Message: Being Aware
One of the biggest things that we don’t always do is make ourselves aware of ourselves. This week I was super agitated. It wasn’t anything that anyone had done. I had to find a balance between the news and all…