Stop Being Afraid of No
In life the word no is probably one of the easiest to say yet the hardest to hear, just ask a toddler. No feels so definitive. It sounds so final but there is a lot of character, life, and perseverance…
Relationship
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Ask Toi: Is it okay for a live in boyfriend not to come home?
Absolutely not okay. When you’re living with your boyfriend or girlfriend there are no days that are schedule for either one of you to have sleepover at other people’s home. This makes zero sense to me. The one way to…
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Everything Ain’t About You
Listen I know that there are times when you can have sensitive spirits. It could be that you are going through a rough patch but please know that everything ain’t about you. There are times when you have to attempt…
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How to Handle Valentine’s Day When you are Beefing
Valentine’s Day is this week and it would be nice if all couples were in an a sea of love and like. That is ideal but it’s not always real. Man Made Holiday These man-made holidays don’t always have timing…
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Monday Motivation: You Can
The world has enough can’t built in it! Today I just want to simply remind you of all the things you can! Feel free to come back to this page as often as you need to remind yourself and of…
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Sunday Message: I’ll make it!
If you’re feeling defeated know that this feeling is normal. It happens to the best of us. Don’t beat yourself up further because of this fleeting feeling. What you can do is turn this feeling around. Defeat can only overtake…
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Self Date, Table for one, Self-Love Moments
It’s easy for me at this stage of my life to do things on my own because I am married and I have kids. A lot of people want that life but the thought of going out alone is one…
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National Compliment Day
Today is national compliment day. I am sure you knew that right? Well let’s talk about them. I know we all love to get them. They make you feel warm, beautiful and confident. However there are a few things to…
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Everything isn’t What it Seems
I want to highlight a few things. I’ve said it before and I will say it again, things on social media can look grande and be filled with so much smoke screen. Yes that is how life rolls. However keep…
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Ask Toi: How do you deal with someone who Deflects all the time?
Consistency and straightforwardness. There is no other way. You will have to find a way not to be like the person you are dealing with. Be clear and concise. Say what you mean and mean what you say. People who…
