Birthday Message: 37 is freeing
Soooooooooo it’s the final day of #toibration. It’s my actual birthday today. What a year it has been! Every birthday is a time to renew! It’s a personal New Year! It’s a time to reset! It’s a time to figure…
Relationship
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Ask Toi: Was I Wrong for calling my husband a child?!
Yes. For my readers women all over call their husband an “extra child.” However that shouldn’t be a serious conversation and not in front of other people. This wife made a scene at a restaurant and then called him a…
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Keep it Together….
You never know who sees you or is watching you. Listen I am the one who can literally go off on anybody. I’m my own professional hype woman. However there are times when you have to be able to learn…
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Monday Motivation: Count you blessings
Today is April 30th. That means that the end of the month is here and we are about to step into a new month. Often times we judge ourselves on what others have done in comparison to what we have…
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Ask Toi: How Do you Tell your Friends to Watch their tone with you?
You have to just tell them. This notion of allowing folks in the name of friendship speak to you anyway suggests that you are keeping them even in an unhealthy state just to keep them around. That’s the same notion…
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Real Love: Friendship Edition
So I have been documenting my journey during various stints of my life. I have talked extensively about moving to Philadelphia from Lancaster and how hard it was for me to adjust to life in general. I STRUGGLED. There were…
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Ask Toi: How do you survive the argumentative double date?!
So the back story is a reader is married and friends with another girl and her husband and they often go out on double dates except the dates have become uncomfortable due to the invited couple arguing and making a…
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Sunday Message: Moving Slowly
There are many weekends when I move like super fast. I am on point and getting things done seem like a breeze. Then there are those times when I feel out of place, out of water, and quite frankly there are…
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Weekly Recap: Friday March 16, 2018
So happy Friday and Pre. St. Patrick’s like a St. Patrick’s Day eve to you all. I hope that you are doing well and have a relaxing weekend ahead of you. Let’s talk about what has been going on. Thank…
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Women’s History Month; Cheryl A., an Update
Good day to all. We have none other than Cheryl A. who is coming back to us with an update. If you remember we interviewed her on March 3, 2016. At the time a lot of her goals had not…