Ask Toi: Christmas Concerns
It’s 7 days before Christmas and with that in mind, let me answer a few Ask Toi that have been sent my way these last couple of days. Keep in mind that in order to submit a question, please email…
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Stopping Through: December 13, 2017
So we are about 12 days to Christmas and the excitement, tiredness, and joy are all mixing over. Some moments I can’t even tell you which one I am in. I am also finding that I also have had mixed…
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Sunday Message: Adults First
So all over the news lately are children taking their lines because they are being bullied. What is a child doing with this much pressure and disappointment in people that they feel the need to take their life? This saddens…
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Take it to the South…..
One of the best things I love about the holidays is getting together with family and friends. Nothing says holiday time then good food, great drinks, friends to laugh and shed a few tears with and today I was able…
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Christmas Village 2017 and City Hall Light Show
Have you ever had cabin fever? We were experiencing it and sad part is we were only in the house for one day. I think because we are always on the go and we were well rested it was hard…
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How to address an Elder
Respect is necessary when you deal with anyone. Elders should always have the highest respect. That is way I was taught but…….there is an addendum to respect that need to be addressed. Elders have earned their spot in the family….
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Thanksgiving 2017: Break a Few Rules
So I really do hope everyone survived Thanksgiving especially for the readers that asked for advice. Not everyone was surrounded by love sometimes they are surrounded by dysfunctional family or friends and getting through may have been the only goal….
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When 2018 Comes…
Every year we run the same list. When the New Year comes I’mma do this and that. I’mma give folks what they give me. I’mma lose the weight. I’mma, I’mma ….. You know I’m all for goals. However you can…
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Ask Toi: Can I monitor his weight as his wife?
No. In my mind when I hear you say monitor especially with everything else you have said in your letter you come off as motherly. Your job is to influence and encourage not to mother. When you use words like…
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Sunday Message: When the Love doesn’t Match!!
You know you can wear mitch matched socks for awhile until something happens and you get caught. On the very day you were trying to be incognito you trip or fall or something happens that reveals you were out in…
