The Art of Stress Less Packing
I love to travel. I can’t say I travel as much as I would like but when the opportunity comes I definitely take full advantage of it. Here are a few of my own personal tips that helps regardless if…
self care
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Ask Toi: How do I tell my mom that she can’t smoke in my house?
Respect in your home is paramount. You just have to take a deep breath and tell her. You don’t ever have to be disrespectful in telling her. The flip is that you don’t have to feel that by telling her…
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Recovery week 3.0
I am super happy that I have finally made it to my 3rd week. It was a struggle to get here. I am finally getting around better. That in itself is a blessing. So from the beginning pain management was…
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Silent Treatments is Abuse
I got a letter or email I should say from a reader who is experiencing this. Holidays are great but the holidays regardless of what it is for brings out the worst in others. My prayer to my reader as…
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Just because dad says so
Growing up in our house my parents had their individual voices. They never told us wait until the other got home to handle us. They would speak and they knew they would be heard. It was never this thing of…
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Surgery update
So today is Tuesday June 20, 2017 and it’s 4 days post hysterectomy surgery. How I am doing is mixed with a lot of emotions. This surgery was out of need but I’m grateful for having a team of doctors…
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When Basics are Celebrated
Please do not get me wrong. I think anyone doing anything positive is good news. I love that people are attempting to move past the backward thinking that has seemed to take this world over. However, can we just be…
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Protect your Babies-Step it up!
I was watching a video of a judge that was reprimanding a couple. The mother of the child that was brutally beat and killed was held responsible too for the heinous death as she should be. However the part that…
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Why Am I Pushing Self Care/Self Love?
If you follow me on Twitter and you should (Toitimeblog) I am really pushing others as well as myself to really think about what it is they need to make them see, feel and know that they are loved. This…
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We not washing now…Hygiene and Relationships
So I was listening to Steve Harvey show yesterday when I heard the strawberry letter about a wife that is no longer washing her behind. Hygiene is important. Now I have personally answered I think at least 2 Ask Toi…
