Just because dad says so
Growing up in our house my parents had their individual voices. They never told us wait until the other got home to handle us. They would speak and they knew they would be heard. It was never this thing of…
self care
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Surgery update
So today is Tuesday June 20, 2017 and it’s 4 days post hysterectomy surgery. How I am doing is mixed with a lot of emotions. This surgery was out of need but I’m grateful for having a team of doctors…
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When Basics are Celebrated
Please do not get me wrong. I think anyone doing anything positive is good news. I love that people are attempting to move past the backward thinking that has seemed to take this world over. However, can we just be…
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Protect your Babies-Step it up!
I was watching a video of a judge that was reprimanding a couple. The mother of the child that was brutally beat and killed was held responsible too for the heinous death as she should be. However the part that…
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Why Am I Pushing Self Care/Self Love?
If you follow me on Twitter and you should (Toitimeblog) I am really pushing others as well as myself to really think about what it is they need to make them see, feel and know that they are loved. This…
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We not washing now…Hygiene and Relationships
So I was listening to Steve Harvey show yesterday when I heard the strawberry letter about a wife that is no longer washing her behind. Hygiene is important. Now I have personally answered I think at least 2 Ask Toi…
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Self Love
Self love will look different, sound different, taste different, etc. to different people. Self love means by the very definition is about loving yourself. The broadest definition of self-love is learning how to care for you. Learning what you need…
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Bosses can go one way or another
It’s national boss day. The day we set aside to tell our bosses what we really feel. Wait. Well it’s the day we set aside to show how much we appreciate our boss. Team Player? Now if you are a…
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Ask Toi: Why is it seem my married friends always down me because I am not married?
There is a sense of accomplishment when a woman gets married. I’m not saying all women but a lot of them think that having a wedding ring and a marriage that means they have arrived. What you have arrived to…
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All Things Fall, My Favs…
So as we draw closer and closer to Thursday I just want to jump for joy. I love this time of the year. As discussed here are the list of my Fall favorites in no particular order. Fall is…
