Insomnia, ToiTime’s Way: Valentine’s Day Warning
Okay picture this it was 2005 and I had been out of college for a few years. So I had met my Mr. Right Now and he had me in an outer body experience. I hadn’t introduced him to my…
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Let Love Be Great!
So this is the weekend when most people will take their significant others out and show them love. Let me just say that everyone doesn’t celebrate this “man-made” holiday however let me encourage all in a few home keeping details….
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Loving the One You’re With is Old…
I know age is a number so that is not at all what we are talking about today. We are talking about loving on someone who doesn’t serve a purpose. Its played out. It’s draining. It’s delusional to say the…
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Self Love
Self love will look different, sound different, taste different, etc. to different people. Self love means by the very definition is about loving yourself. The broadest definition of self-love is learning how to care for you. Learning what you need…
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Bling and Foundations
As you know the holidays are a magical time. Everyone is buzzing around and being in the best moods for the most part. Gifts are getting purchased and wrapped. Egg nog is being enjoyed. This is also the time that…
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Fake Marriages and Why?
So every last relationship on this planet is different. Not one is the same no matter how many similarities may exist. So my thing is that women do NOT need to be married. I know men are measured by their…
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“My married friends are worst than my single ones…”
I want to knock on wood, pray to baby Jesus the Black and the White one, go in a trance that I never have to know the betrayal of a husband in the form of another woman having my husband’s…
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National Coming Out Day
So today is the day. The day where people either come out or the ones who come out share their stories of how it was when they did. Come out from what? Come out and let the ones that they…
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The Boys Club
I can’t stand the “boys club” Let me be clear as a married woman I’m not shopping around for a stand by mate. I have to make that disclaimer early because misery loves company and I’m good. I was on…
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Husband vs. Hubby
There really is no debate. A husband and hubby aren’t one in the same. I see so many women who have these long-term boyfriends calling him “my hubby”. Okay let’s break this down. This “hubby” of yours is someone you…
