A Radical Reminder Rest is not a reward.Joy is not a luxury.Ease is not a mistake. These truths are not earned.They are not conditional.They are not negotiable. We live in a culture that glorifies exhaustion.That celebrates burnout.That equates busyness with…
Fall is a season of transition. As the leaves change and the air cools, nature reminds us that letting go is not only natural—it’s necessary. Just as trees shed their leaves to prepare for winter, we too are invited to…
Self-care is often portrayed as bubble baths, spa days, and moments of indulgence. While those rituals have their place, true self-care is rooted in discipline. It’s the daily commitment to prioritize your well-being, even when it’s inconvenient, uncomfortable, or unglamorous….
In a world that glorifies hustle, slowing down can feel like rebellion. But self-care isn’t indulgent—it’s essential. It’s how we reconnect with ourselves, recharge our energy, and reclaim our peace. At ToiTime.org, we believe self-care should be intentional, accessible, and…
Blogging has been a joy. This entire month we are going to celebrate my Blogiversary! 5 years ago what started out as something to do has turned into a whole experience! I had a vision and that vision has shifted…
So as you should know especially if you are a follower of mine is that my birthday I call it Toibration. First of all I love my name, hence the blog name. Two I love to celebrate things and let…
So finally today is the day. It is my birthday. Anytime you can wake up on the side of the living is a blessing. Older people look forward to seeing a new birthday while younger people act as if it…
Today is the day. I am so excited. It’s like a birthday and an anniversary all wrapped in one. So today I want to do some self reflecting. One, I can’t believe its been 2 years already. It seems like…
I love blogging let me say that right now. I really do but and there is always a but that blogging brings up a lot of things. For me it’s so easy to just start writing or typing. It’s like…
So as we draw closer and closer to Thursday I just want to jump for joy. I love this time of the year. As discussed here are the list of my Fall favorites in no particular order. Fall is…
