What your Married Friends Won’t Tell You
So I am going to a wedding today. I know without a doubt this union is just going to be a beautiful celebration of two people who really do love each other and who are both committed to being there…
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Ask Toi: Can you leave your mate for a medical problem?
Yes you can leave for any reason. By mate, I assume you mean husband or wife. Traditional vows says in sickness and in health. That is a large undertaking. This leads to so many different levels of what sickness means….
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Ask Toi: We have an open marriage in that we don’t check in with each other but now he’s booking trips without me, what do I do?
This not checking in life for marriage doesn’t settle with me. Even in the absence of children in a marriage this concept of everyone doing them sounds like polar opposite of what marriage looks like to ME. This is my…
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We not washing now…Hygiene and Relationships
So I was listening to Steve Harvey show yesterday when I heard the strawberry letter about a wife that is no longer washing her behind. Hygiene is important. Now I have personally answered I think at least 2 Ask Toi…
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Ask Toi: My husband has told me he doesn’t want to go out on dates unless I can reassure him it will lead to sex…What do I do?
First of all you have to ask him why he feels that way. There is a reason. If he doesn’t feel as if he is getting enough than maybe asking when you have special evenings is the reason. You will…
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Ask Toi: What do I do my husband found out my password is my ex’s name?
First of all how did he find out? I know plenty of couples who know passwords and passcodes to things and that is not an issue. You stated that he “found” out which would sound as if he didn’t have…
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Ask Toi: Do I tell my husband his perfect friend is hitting on me?
Yes. There’s no way around it. Perfect in whomever eyes he still is perfectly wrong. Now to my readers the back story is this perfect friend of my reader’s husband adores his wife publicly on social media and appears to…
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Emotional Taxes
So today was something like an epic fail of sorts emotionally. I can’t put my finger on one event that set me off but once I was there, it was hard to retreat. I have been writing in my journal for…
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Fake Marriages and Why?
So every last relationship on this planet is different. Not one is the same no matter how many similarities may exist. So my thing is that women do NOT need to be married. I know men are measured by their…
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Evaluate my life when I feel in Shambles…
Self evaluation of your life should happen often. How often is up to you. For me I always have a plan so I may look at things weekly if not daily. It’s not that I am attempting to carry the…
