Operating In Offense
So today I was reminded of what it looks like to operate in offense. Operating in offense is when you are so offended by someone or something that you can’t hear what others are saying to you. You are snippy, rude,…
Relationships
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Christmas Village Experience 2018
So as many of you know I came across the Christmas Village last year doing a Google search for free family fun. I then convinced my family to give the authentic outdoor German Market a try. We were impressed and…
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Ask Toi: How do I handle my ex-husband when I’ve asked him to clean his home before the kids come for their visits?
Back story for my readers is they have a custody order to split time. It’s been working. The problem is the kids are old enough to verbally state that not only is the home unclean but its more or less…
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Monday Motivation: Keep Moving
This morning was an interesting start. That first day back after a few great days off. We were tired and sluggish. My cousins came to visit us so we allowed the kids to stay up a little longer than usual….
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What a wicked way to treat the girl that loves you
So I’m out and about today. While out a woman is behind me talking to another woman. The one woman asks where her husband was. Her answer was he just started chemotherapy and he’s home. So I’m like wow Lord…
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Ask Toi: My Husband Says I Mother Him, How do I stop this behavior?
You will only stop what you accept is bad behavior. Your husband can tell you that you are mothering him but if you make excuses, it won’t change. You are not his mother but is wife. You can’t expect this…
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Ask Toi: Do you think people should go to counseling before having Children?
Yes and no. I think that if you have had things happen in your childhood that affects your ability to raise your children then yes. If once you have children you notice things that come up, by all means run…
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Ask Toi: How Do You Deal with Being Uncomfortable Bumping Into Someone you Dated?
This encounter no matter how brief is always uncomfortable. I think its always in good gesture to if you can’t avoid seeing them to be gracious. If you don’t want to get into any heavy conversation to control the conversation…
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Ask Toi: Follow up To the Wife who’s Husband’s Mother paid him to leave her
So this was a suggestion from a reader to find out what happened to the couple whose mother paid the husband to leave his wife and he took the money: If you didn’t get a chance to read the original…
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National Make A Difference Day
How can you make a difference? This is such an open-ended question. We always have a tenacity to go to what we don’t have before we answer. You start listing all of the things you aren’t before you can just…
