Ask Toi: Hump Day Edition
The question is how does our reader communicate to her boyfriend that he needs to stop promising the world to her during sex… Well this is a good problem to have. In one sense know that during sex a man…
Self Care
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Sunday Message: Stop Fighting
When I was younger I didn’t get into a lot of fights but the ones that I did get into I definitely finished them. Fighting back in the day was a means of survival. I definitely wasn’t the one to…
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Ask Toi: Personal Questions Part 2
So as promised here is part 2 of the personal questions that readers ask me #AskToi questions. Remember if you have questions about relationships, friendship, dating, work, and anything in between, send the email [email protected] How often do you argue…
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Ask Toi: Personal Questions Answered Part 1
I have said before when doing these Ask Toi when it comes to personal questions I reserve the right to not answer questions that I feel are too personal in nature. I will answer what I can when I see…
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Ask Toi: What do I do with an ex that won’t stop contacting me?
Ex boyfriend and ex girlfriends can vary from easy-going to super annoying. I would suggest if the communication is unwanted tell him/her. Direct communication from your part in order to get direct no contact should work. However if your ex…
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Monday Motivation: National Weigh In Day
Good Monday morning to you. How are you working through your first week of the New Year? I am hoping your motivation is still going strong. I hope to use this platform to encourage you to live your best life….
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Sunday Message: Speak into existence with action
I know we still in the New Year glow. We all have our plans and list going. However what we don’t get is that just simply writing things down helps you focus, it doesn’t do the work. You have to…
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Surviving R. Kelly; My Thoughts
Let’s cut to the chase on this. There is so much to unravel! These are my thoughts: R. Kelly is a sick. He really is. There is zero doubt about that. No excuses!! No bull. It is what it is….
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Ask Toi: What do you think of Meek Mill saying women need to take wigs off in 2019?
A reader wanted to know my thoughts so here we go: Meh. A man telling a woman about hair is neither here nor there to be honest. Meek can have any opinion he wants. He has a right to voice…
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Ask Toi: A man I’ve been dating for months has gone stale in communication, what should I do?
This sounds like he’s ghosting you. Ghosting is when someone you’re dating or dealing with no longer answers calls or text messages and is unavailable. First of all, understand that some folks avoid difficult conversations. He is definitely not interested…