Natural is not a Phase
If you look around in the African-American community you see so many embracing themselves for the first time. It’s a beautiful thing. It’s not a phase for most. This is the time to really embrace yourself in all of your…
Wellness
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My Weight Loss Journey
So Happy Valentine’s Day. Today is February 14th. I am super excited among all the candy and treats that will be thrown around today to talk about my weight loss journey. Currently I am down another size in my clothes…
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Sunday Blues
Am I the only one who spends their Sundays trying to get their entire life together? Literally from running around getting the house cleaned, meal prepping, church, relaxation (whenever I can), laundry, etc there are not enough hours in one day….
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Let Love Be Great!
So this is the weekend when most people will take their significant others out and show them love. Let me just say that everyone doesn’t celebrate this “man-made” holiday however let me encourage all in a few home keeping details….
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Get Your Ass Home
So recently my husband celebrated his birthday with a birthday trip with some of his closest friends. Now I am team enjoy your birthday and before we married we took trips separately etc. So him going away wasn’t a big…
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Loving the One You’re With is Old…
I know age is a number so that is not at all what we are talking about today. We are talking about loving on someone who doesn’t serve a purpose. Its played out. It’s draining. It’s delusional to say the…
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Ask Toi: How do I get my husband to step it up and help parent our kids?
Simple you ask him. You also let him step in. He is grown. Those kids were not made alone. If you are saying he needs to step it up that means to me that he does do something but not…
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Self Love
Self love will look different, sound different, taste different, etc. to different people. Self love means by the very definition is about loving yourself. The broadest definition of self-love is learning how to care for you. Learning what you need…
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Ask Toi: Do I tell my husband his perfect friend is hitting on me?
Yes. There’s no way around it. Perfect in whomever eyes he still is perfectly wrong. Now to my readers the back story is this perfect friend of my reader’s husband adores his wife publicly on social media and appears to…
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Hidden Figures with my 7 year old
So this weekend I dedicated a lot of my energy towards my children. We went to go and see Hidden Figures. I directed most of my time for them all the time. As a mom they are always on my…
