Married, single and unhappy
I read an article about this just last night and was in awe. I gave thought to how many people want to be married and are searching for their other half just to have people who are married operating as…
Wellness
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What I learned this year of blogging
One of the first things I learned is that everyone is dealing with things. A lot of people don’t have someone to outsource to that they can speak their truth without feeling like they are being judged. That’s where the…
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Ask Toi: Do I have to allow my significant other’s family on my social network?
No. You do not need to have them on your social media network. If you want to then fine. Even if you have nothing to hide some family just like to nitpick and look for stuff. As the relationship evolves…
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Attachment game…what she said
Well ladies it’s our time. We have found a cutie that we like. We spent a few hours on the phone and a few awesome dates and we are feeling like he could be the one. What do you do?…
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The Attachment Game..What he said!!
It’s boo loving time. This is what the young folks call cuffing season. You know the term where you find that little cold or winter playmate and try to make him or her official. Well when you’re really grown you…
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My man’s body odor is making me not want to be close, I’ve talked about it and he won’t change…
Talking hasn’t helped than not being intimate is my suggestion. We all have had moments when you’re not as fresh as you would like. However there’s a line of having a smelly moment and just being funky. I know for…
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Ask Toi: I’ve taken a break from my mother in law but she won’t change…
On this past Sunday was mother in law day. I withheld this question on purpose. Mother in laws vary from the truly supportive to monster in laws. Knowing where you and yours fit is important. When you have tried what…
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Ask Toi: Now that we are married I can’t get him to communicate?
The issue is knowing his communication style. Sometimes we want our men to do and say like we do and that rarely happens. You need to understand how he’s attempting to speak. If for instance you have a question but…
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Halloween Mishaps
Okay so it’s almost that time of the year where the ladies will have an even more of a reason to be naked, yes it’s Halloween time. I was looking online for costumes and it’s a sad selection. I’m not…
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Ask Toi: The old thing back (male edition) my girlfriend doesn’t dress up anymore, if I mention it will she think I’m being mean?
Yes but only if you approach it the wrong way. Tact is everything. I tell people often to place yourself in your girlfriend’s shoes. How would you like for her to approach you. Use that and make your claim. There…