The Crackdown: Surviving the Holidays
Oh October is here. That means Fall is definitely here. The one thing that the presence of Fall brings is the pressure of the holidays. Anxiety is real. If you ever deal with it on a regular basis then you…
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Ask Toi: I’ve changed my mind about having a baby and my husband wants out the marriage…
This is a huge situation. As a woman you have a right to feel the way you do about childbirth however he has a right to be upset. I would really find out why you have a change of heart. …
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Ask Toi: My cousin and I got into a heated argument, she hit me and I pushed her off of me. She and the family says I shouldn’t have…
Wait a physical fight over an altercation. Thats a huge red flag for me. I am one for a good argument. I’m usually not the one to back down easily but when you resort to hitting that’s a huge NO…
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Compromise…..
Beyonce was a headliner at the Global Citizen festival. This touched on a lot of topics one being the disparity between men and women on things such as pay, etc. The #62milliongirls campaign was highlighted. 62 million girls who aren’t…
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Ask Toi: My husband doesn’t help with the kids and I’m a stay at home mom…
Let me start off by saying a Stay at Home mom is hard work. I was in your place for years so I understand the struggle. My answer to your problem is stop making your 2 parent home into a…
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Ask Toi: My husband thinks that because I still get a full exam at the gynecologist that I think he’s cheating…
Your husband is a bit misinformed. Having a gynecological exam helps to protect you as a woman against one of the biggest killer amongst women and that’s cervical cancer. That alone as a husband should make him want to support…
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Ask Toi: I’m starting to think my sister is against me…
Well welcome to the world of sisterly love and support. Sisters are automatic friends. Some sisters are closer than others. Some are distant and can be in the same room with one another and barely speak. You have to know…
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Giving up isn’t the answer
So I said I would do some Sunday blogs. People will email and say that I blog most days except Sunday. It’s true. Unlike popular belief it’s not for religious reasons. It’s just that I use Sunday like most to…
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National Respect Day
Hope you’re having a great day today. But let’s talk about respect. It’s national respect day. Yes a day where we should check ourselves and do some type of self evaluation in how we treat others and want to be…
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The Comfortable Man
For my ladies, have you ever dated the man who just doesn’t want too much? We aren’t talking about being content. We are talking about the man that you need to do more in the care level and you get…
