This question is coming from a newlywed so here is my answer: Simply thank them for their concern and let them know that when the time is right you will have or not have a child. The decision is…
Absolutely not okay. When you’re living with your boyfriend or girlfriend there are no days that are schedule for either one of you to have sleepover at other people’s home. This makes zero sense to me. The one way to…
Is anybody other than me still struggling with writing 2018? I don’t know why I am but I am. It seems so weird to say but we are all the way into the New Year. One of the things that…
Consistency and straightforwardness. There is no other way. You will have to find a way not to be like the person you are dealing with. Be clear and concise. Say what you mean and mean what you say. People who…
Yes I have and it was so super brief not many people knew. I wasn’t trying to hide him either. I have zero problems with dating outside of my race if the vibes are right. I have never been one…
Its hard. Let’s acknowledge that. Sometimes we dive into things so I wanted to acknowledge that frustrating feeling. It can be an uneasy feeling to feel like you have no one in your court. In order to work through it…
I am going to end my Ask Toi with a few that I have yet to publish and answer. I pray that as we close this last month out and this week that you will go into the New Year…
It’s 7 days before Christmas and with that in mind, let me answer a few Ask Toi that have been sent my way these last couple of days. Keep in mind that in order to submit a question, please email…
I am afraid to tell my parents that I do not want to stay at their house during the holidays. How do I do it? I would have the conversation now before the holidays really shift into gear. Try to…
Is it okay to air out a grievance about a company or individual who didn’t offer a good service or a faulty product? If they have a social media page for their work than yes. Business is business. In this…
