The Complainer
Let me just say and acknowledge that I used to be the one that got on everyone’s nerves with complaining. I mean as much as I blamed everyone else for the inability to deal with it, the truth of the…
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Thanksgiving Tips To Get Through
It’s here, it’s finally here. The start of the Thanksgiving and the holidays can begin. For all of those that have been dreading this I have tips to help. Any of those who welcome it, it’s time to go into…
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Ask Toi: I recently overheard a song that I used to share with an ex, my current boyfriend thinks I should stop singing it, what should I do?
Nothing. It’s a song. There is nothing that your current boyfriend can do with the fact that you have a memory with an ex. It’s life. We all have them. I have them. The point is to see it as…
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I Got You Ma…
Well where I live it’s about to be a nice 90 degrees. This is a signal to every female of what to expect in the coming months. It doesn’t matter if you’re single, married, or an alien, if you are…
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Ask Toi: My boyfriend is calling me little cute names and its irking me but this is a new relationship and I don’t want to mess it up, what should I do?
The very point of new love is to get to know someone. If you telling your boyfriend that you don’t like something is an issue this relationship will not last. Relationships are give and take. Sometimes you have to speak…
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We not washing now…Hygiene and Relationships
So I was listening to Steve Harvey show yesterday when I heard the strawberry letter about a wife that is no longer washing her behind. Hygiene is important. Now I have personally answered I think at least 2 Ask Toi…
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Ask Toi: My ex got in contact with me to tell me that I am miserable its messing with my head,what can I do?
There’s something I learned I believe from my mom, you can’t stop people from calling (back then you couldn’t) but you can choose who you answer. You do NOT need to entertain your ex’s shenanigans. Even if that was true…
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Ask Toi: I am dating a woman and I am a woman and my girlfriend is very controlling..says that shes been better than anyone male or female and I should deal, what is your advice?
It doesn’t matter to me that you are a woman dating another woman. No relationship should be so demanding and controlling. If it makes you uncomfortable than it should be heard and followed through with change, period. Just because a…
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Let Love Be Great!
So this is the weekend when most people will take their significant others out and show them love. Let me just say that everyone doesn’t celebrate this “man-made” holiday however let me encourage all in a few home keeping details….
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Loving the One You’re With is Old…
I know age is a number so that is not at all what we are talking about today. We are talking about loving on someone who doesn’t serve a purpose. Its played out. It’s draining. It’s delusional to say the…
