Ask Toi: Hump Day Edition
The question is how does our reader communicate to her boyfriend that he needs to stop promising the world to her during sex… Well this is a good problem to have. In one sense know that during sex a man…
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Sunday Message: Stop Fighting
When I was younger I didn’t get into a lot of fights but the ones that I did get into I definitely finished them. Fighting back in the day was a means of survival. I definitely wasn’t the one to…
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Ask Toi: Personal Questions Part 2
So as promised here is part 2 of the personal questions that readers ask me #AskToi questions. Remember if you have questions about relationships, friendship, dating, work, and anything in between, send the email [email protected] How often do you argue…
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Ask Toi: Personal Questions Answered Part 1
I have said before when doing these Ask Toi when it comes to personal questions I reserve the right to not answer questions that I feel are too personal in nature. I will answer what I can when I see…
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Surviving R. Kelly; My Thoughts
Let’s cut to the chase on this. There is so much to unravel! These are my thoughts: R. Kelly is a sick. He really is. There is zero doubt about that. No excuses!! No bull. It is what it is….
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Ask Toi: A man I’ve been dating for months has gone stale in communication, what should I do?
This sounds like he’s ghosting you. Ghosting is when someone you’re dating or dealing with no longer answers calls or text messages and is unavailable. First of all, understand that some folks avoid difficult conversations. He is definitely not interested…
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Sunday Message: Stand in your Own Light
There’s so much expectations going on. I’m watching a lot of current events and hearing debates on all types of things. One thing to keep in mind is allowing people to find their way and stay in their own light….
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What a wicked way to treat the girl that loves you
So I’m out and about today. While out a woman is behind me talking to another woman. The one woman asks where her husband was. Her answer was he just started chemotherapy and he’s home. So I’m like wow Lord…
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Fusing Friendships
One of the biggest challenges when I moved to Philly years ago was leaving what I was comfortable being around. I was used to my set of friends. I was used to my town. I knew how to get everywhere….
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Monday Motivation: Mario Kart Life
Today is a day like any day to make the best out of our situations. Let’s not front and act as if everyone woke up with their affairs in order. You might have gotten up this morning with stress on…