National Reconciliation Day
It’s a beautiful thing to discover a fault. It’s also one thing recognize the wrong doing but to also make a conscience decision to not only to say sorry but to turn from the fault and do the right thing…
girl talk
Women’s History Month: Zulma M.
How someone treats you matters. It sets the tone for respect or disrespect. Often times we get upset but there are times we need to look in the mirror. How we respond to the treatment says continue or stop. If…
Weekly Recap: Friday February 22, 2019
Blog Life Friday Recap Happy Friday! I hope you are keeping up. A new blog has hit everyday this month so far. We talked about a lot of mental health topics one way or another. It was necessary. One I…
Girlfriends are the Spice of Life: Happy Galentines Day
Galentine’s Day is the day that we girls can profess our love to our best girl friends! There is something about having amazing girlfriends in your life who can support you, love you, and stand with life turns left. I…
Chicago The Wind Down; May 9, 2017
So I just had the most amazing time with my girls. To say that I had fun would be an understatement. If you are looking to come to Chicago but don’t like to eat or walk this is not the…
Tinsel Philly: Happy Hour Meets Christmas
So if you love Christmas and you love drinks and getting out this is your bar. This pop-up Christmas bar is the envy of anything holiday that I have attended. Tinsel Philly Pop-Up bar is your go to. What is…
Monday Motivation: Checking in on Others
The holidays are in full swing. Its going to be so much going on and before you know it the year will be over. Why is it important on a Monday to talk about checking in on others? Strong people…
Ask Toi: Do you think people should go to counseling before having Children?
Yes and no. I think that if you have had things happen in your childhood that affects your ability to raise your children then yes. If once you have children you notice things that come up, by all means run…
The Complainer
Let me just say and acknowledge that I used to be the one that got on everyone’s nerves with complaining. I mean as much as I blamed everyone else for the inability to deal with it, the truth of the…
Ask Toi: How Do you Tell your Friends to Watch their tone with you?
You have to just tell them. This notion of allowing folks in the name of friendship speak to you anyway suggests that you are keeping them even in an unhealthy state just to keep them around. That’s the same notion…