How To Deal With a Jerk
So the other day I was driving behind a jerk. I was on my way to work and I didn’t have my kids in the car which is a rarity in the morning. Usually when I have the kids in…
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This Has Got to Go
So I have been asked questions about my weight loss journey and I want to answer them for you. For those who don’t know I have been losing weight since January. I have lost a total of 32 pounds to…
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No Accounts
So one of my favorite cousins had a conversation about no accounts. When we first started talking it was about no account mammies. Yes I said mammies. No account mammies are the moms who have kids and don’t take care…
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Why Am I Pushing Self Care/Self Love?
If you follow me on Twitter and you should (Toitimeblog) I am really pushing others as well as myself to really think about what it is they need to make them see, feel and know that they are loved. This…
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Women’s Month: Who is KJM?
I have had the unique opportunity to come across some really unique blogs over the years. I find that I usually lean more towards the one that tell it like it is. I am not saying I don’t like the…
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Action Do Something
So let me just say that I have about had all I can take but I know that is not true because as time goes especially in the next day or so the complaints are going to take off. I…
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Lazy Ass Friends
So let me make my disclaimer early. This is not to be used to have a bunch of friends texting, emailing, or calling me to find out what they may or may not have done. If it don’t apply let…
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Fake Marriages and Why?
So every last relationship on this planet is different. Not one is the same no matter how many similarities may exist. So my thing is that women do NOT need to be married. I know men are measured by their…
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Ask Toi: If you wanted to throw a party for a friend that is married or in a relationship, do you have to ask their mate first?
I would say out of respect you would. How do you know that the mate or significant other would want to be the one that plans it? Or what if they were taking your friend out-of-town? Back in the days…
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My Thankfulness
I know that is clichéd but the reality is for those who celebrate it, it really is about being grateful. It’s the one time of the year where you hold all the sour faces would perk up. We know you…
