My Go To’s of Social Media
So you know that social media can be a blessing and a curse. If you are on it to compare your life you will immediately fall into a state of depression and that is something you do not want to…
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National Family Day
Families are wonderful to be involved in. Families don’t have to be the set parents and siblings that we think they should be. Family dynamics change all the time. What is important for any family structure is love being in…
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3 Years of Blogging-The Background Tea
Happy Anniversary! I love this time of the year. It’s like a birthday and Christmas wrapped into one. On a blogiversary I usually rethink what I want to do. I get a vision together and I work with it. I…
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Wait Your Turn
I have been in this mindset of making people wait. Everyone knows what I mean by that. The person or persons in your life that need what they need right this second and think that the sun rises and sets…
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Adult Not Grown
I finally get it. Shout out to my parents, Charles and Rhonda but I finally get it. All the times I was yelling out how “grown” I was and my parents would come behind my rant, and burst my bubble,…
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Approvals Aren’t Always Necessary
We live in an approval type world. We live for likes and shares. We live for someone to high-five our moves. There are times when this is just not necessary. There are times when this will not happen, what are…
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Ask Toi: I got questions….
So because I haven’t been doing a good job in answering questions that come in publicly so today is an Ask Toi drop. I am answering a series of questions publicly that I have already answered readers privately. Looks like…
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This Has Got to Go
So I have been asked questions about my weight loss journey and I want to answer them for you. For those who don’t know I have been losing weight since January. I have lost a total of 32 pounds to…
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No Accounts
So one of my favorite cousins had a conversation about no accounts. When we first started talking it was about no account mammies. Yes I said mammies. No account mammies are the moms who have kids and don’t take care…
