Fake Marriages and Why?
So every last relationship on this planet is different. Not one is the same no matter how many similarities may exist. So my thing is that women do NOT need to be married. I know men are measured by their…
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Ask Toi: Do I have to give someone a thank you card for a thank you card?
No you don’t ever need to give a thank you card for a thank you card. If you want to acknowledge that you received it than do that. You can do that with a call that is brief or a…
Ask Toi: If you wanted to throw a party for a friend that is married or in a relationship, do you have to ask their mate first?
I would say out of respect you would. How do you know that the mate or significant other would want to be the one that plans it? Or what if they were taking your friend out-of-town? Back in the days…
Evaluate my life when I feel in Shambles…
Self evaluation of your life should happen often. How often is up to you. For me I always have a plan so I may look at things weekly if not daily. It’s not that I am attempting to carry the…
Running on Zero Energy
There are so many moment in life that you find yourself running on E. You do all that you can do extend yourself to a million and one place and then you find out that you are just at a…
Ask Toi: Is it ever okay to text/call someone else’s mate?
From my reader: “My cousin constantly calls my husband for things. It could be a ride, borrow money, there’s no limit. I have said something numerous times to my husband to stop answering the calls but he said he doesn’t…
Pay it Forward
Paying it forward is another way of giving of yourself, your time, and your energy to someone else. It doesn’t have anything to do with what’s deserved. You literally can pay it forward not just today but on every day….