Operating In Offense
So today I was reminded of what it looks like to operate in offense. Operating in offense is when you are so offended by someone or something that you can’t hear what others are saying to you. You are snippy, rude,…
husbands
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Ask Toi: How do I handle my ex-husband when I’ve asked him to clean his home before the kids come for their visits?
Back story for my readers is they have a custody order to split time. It’s been working. The problem is the kids are old enough to verbally state that not only is the home unclean but its more or less…
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What a wicked way to treat the girl that loves you
So I’m out and about today. While out a woman is behind me talking to another woman. The one woman asks where her husband was. Her answer was he just started chemotherapy and he’s home. So I’m like wow Lord…
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Ask Toi: My Husband Says I Mother Him, How do I stop this behavior?
You will only stop what you accept is bad behavior. Your husband can tell you that you are mothering him but if you make excuses, it won’t change. You are not his mother but is wife. You can’t expect this…
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Ask Toi: Follow up To the Wife who’s Husband’s Mother paid him to leave her
So this was a suggestion from a reader to find out what happened to the couple whose mother paid the husband to leave his wife and he took the money: If you didn’t get a chance to read the original…
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National Make A Difference Day
How can you make a difference? This is such an open-ended question. We always have a tenacity to go to what we don’t have before we answer. You start listing all of the things you aren’t before you can just…
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Love Energy
If you ever worked out you know how it can feel. Sometimes you feel super motivated. Other times you have a love/hate relationship. However if you are consistent in it you will notice how better you feel and eventually you…
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Re-write Your Monday
Today was one for the books. I needed a drink and it wasn’t even 8am. I felt like I was on a show where I had to phone in a friend, grab a locksmith, and all before I even had…
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Evaluate Your Life
I think doing check ins with yourself is important. It’s not just something you do when the New Year hits or on your birthday. A life check up and check in helps to reinforce your goals. So what do you…
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My Personal Top 20 Failures…Lessons I Learned
So failing is a part of life. There is no way of getting around it. The more you become successful in any area, there are a thousand times you will fail at another. Failures is how we learn sometimes. It…
