Not So Motherly Mother
So we are definitely in Mother’s Day official weekend. This means that restaurants are about to make a killing along with flower shops and stores in general. There is a small amount of people who dread this weekend and it’s…
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Birthday Message: 37 is freeing
Soooooooooo it’s the final day of #toibration. It’s my actual birthday today. What a year it has been! Every birthday is a time to renew! It’s a personal New Year! It’s a time to reset! It’s a time to figure…
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Motherhood the No Manual Life
So Mother’s Day is coming up and we as moms will be thanked for all the things that we do. But I need to take a pause on the things that we as mom get, the no manual life. There…
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Ask Toi: Was I Wrong for calling my husband a child?!
Yes. For my readers women all over call their husband an “extra child.” However that shouldn’t be a serious conversation and not in front of other people. This wife made a scene at a restaurant and then called him a…
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Keep it Together….
You never know who sees you or is watching you. Listen I am the one who can literally go off on anybody. I’m my own professional hype woman. However there are times when you have to be able to learn…
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Monday Motivation: Count you blessings
Today is April 30th. That means that the end of the month is here and we are about to step into a new month. Often times we judge ourselves on what others have done in comparison to what we have…
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One year down… weight loss-chronicles
Welp a year has come. I have managed to keep my weight off and in addition I’ve managed to fight through the ups and downs along the journey. I’ve lost around 70 pounds to date but it wasn’t easy having…
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Monday; New Challenge
So it’s a start of a new week and now a new month. Now that Easter is over which also means Lent is over, I want to propose a new challenge. The challenge is to stop negative self talk. This…
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Monday Madness
Happy Monday. I find when I say that I get so much backlash. Already today I have been confronted by the “it ain’t no happy Monday.” Or I got “I hate Mondays!” I get it. It’s hard to push through…
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Ask Toi: How do you survive the argumentative double date?!
So the back story is a reader is married and friends with another girl and her husband and they often go out on double dates except the dates have become uncomfortable due to the invited couple arguing and making a…