Surgery update 2.0
So thank you to all who tuned into my first update. I have read your messages and trust me I can feel the love and support. It’s love and support that gets most surgery patients of any kind through. No…
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Surgery update
So today is Tuesday June 20, 2017 and it’s 4 days post hysterectomy surgery. How I am doing is mixed with a lot of emotions. This surgery was out of need but I’m grateful for having a team of doctors…
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Ask Toi: What should I do if someone from my past or new love interest knocks and I’m already connected?!
If you’re already connected and the interested person doesn’t know you need to tell them. If they know but still pushing up than know they just like the chase and want to see if you will take the bait. As…
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Mother’s Day Do NOTS
So yes it’s Mother’s Day and the day can be super beautiful however there are a few things you don’t want to do: If a woman isn’t pregnant or at least hasn’t confirmed it with you, do NOT ask her…
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Single Moms Survival Kit
So life of a single mom has usually a few things tied to it, stress and time. There isn’t anyone that can help lighten their load. They play the role of both parents which is almost nearly impossible. They have…
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Stress Awareness: Emotional Stress
Emotional stress is one of the stressors that attaches itself to one of the other stresses we discussed. If your mind is all over the place, allowing you to think about all kinds of thing it will affect your emotions…
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Stress Awareness: Physical Stress
Stress as we discussed last week starts sometimes in the mind. Going on and on for so long and not getting your mental health in check can lead to physical stress. Physical stress is when your body becomes very reactive…
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Ask Toi: How do I handle if a person highlights one child over another one of my children in public?
I’m trying to understand. If you are talking about in the example of saying maybe how cute or how whatever one child is over another than there’s only one real way of handling it. Build your children up at home….
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Nancy you have got to go…
You ever meet a real life negative Nancy? The one who complains about the sun being in the sky. They always have some rebuttal for everything you say. They are dissatisfied in their own lives and the only time they…
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My littlest almost killed me… Black Maternal Health
Black maternal health is a topic that shouldn’t have to be. However many Black women will not live to see their babies grow up. I am ready to share my birth story of my youngest. I and my husband was…
