Ode to 20 Years of Service
My dad is retiring from the military today. What an amazing accomplishment. I am not writing this from his perspective but from mine in seeing him put his life on the line for every American. This is for every hard…
reflection
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Operating In Offense
So today I was reminded of what it looks like to operate in offense. Operating in offense is when you are so offended by someone or something that you can’t hear what others are saying to you. You are snippy, rude,…
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What I love about Thanksgiving
This is not a drill it’s Thanksgiving time. We are exactly one week away. I can’t wait. I love to eat. I love Thanksgiving for a few reasons. A lot of them has to do with how people act. It’s…
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Ask Toi: My Husband Says I Mother Him, How do I stop this behavior?
You will only stop what you accept is bad behavior. Your husband can tell you that you are mothering him but if you make excuses, it won’t change. You are not his mother but is wife. You can’t expect this…
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Keep your Thanksgiving Wits
So this is the last weekend before Thanksgiving. Keep in mind that the grocery stores will be super crowded. So take your patience with you as you travel out. Between stores and traffic it will be a testing time. Preparation…
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Monday Motivation: Mario Kart Life
Today is a day like any day to make the best out of our situations. Let’s not front and act as if everyone woke up with their affairs in order. You might have gotten up this morning with stress on…
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Ask Toi: Follow up To the Wife who’s Husband’s Mother paid him to leave her
So this was a suggestion from a reader to find out what happened to the couple whose mother paid the husband to leave his wife and he took the money: If you didn’t get a chance to read the original…
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Ask Toi: What do you do if you reach out to a friend and they constantly ghost you?
Stop reaching out to them. They could have things going on or they could just not be in the space to talk at all or specifically to you. There is no way of knowing. However its okay to reach out…
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Friends List-Anxiety Buster
So we all friends and how they interact with you determine how you should proceed with them. I have been guilty of having a large list of friends on social media but in real life barely interact with then. I…
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Love Energy
If you ever worked out you know how it can feel. Sometimes you feel super motivated. Other times you have a love/hate relationship. However if you are consistent in it you will notice how better you feel and eventually you…
