Shoot Your Shot
Well let’s have a little talk about going after what you want. The other day I was leaving the gym and a man approached me and asked to take me to dinner. I politely declined. I didn’t need to make…
relationships
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Day Off I Conquered You
I love my kids so please don’t take this blog as a compliant because it’s not. They are the absolute best part of me. They are what I hope the future has to offer. They are amazing and really good…
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Sunday Message: Know your Position
So this morning I decided to meet up with my girl crew for a run. This particular run they decided to change the route. I was okay with it. I felt strong physically and mentally to get it done. I…
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How to address an Elder
Respect is necessary when you deal with anyone. Elders should always have the highest respect. That is way I was taught but…….there is an addendum to respect that need to be addressed. Elders have earned their spot in the family….
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Thanksgiving 2017: Break a Few Rules
So I really do hope everyone survived Thanksgiving especially for the readers that asked for advice. Not everyone was surrounded by love sometimes they are surrounded by dysfunctional family or friends and getting through may have been the only goal….
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Ask Toi: How do I encourage the love of my life to do the old things they once did?
This is a very sensitive subject. Often times women and men can lose their way when it comes to keeping the spark lit. One of the things to keep in mind is to look at what may have happened that…
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The Catch Up: November 14, 2017
I haven’t given a weekly update since October 30th. Life has been happening and I am enjoying every minute of it. If you have been following me on Facebook than you know that I work hard to bring you the national days…
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When 2018 Comes…
Every year we run the same list. When the New Year comes I’mma do this and that. I’mma give folks what they give me. I’mma lose the weight. I’mma, I’mma ….. You know I’m all for goals. However you can…
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Ask Toi: Can I monitor his weight as his wife?
No. In my mind when I hear you say monitor especially with everything else you have said in your letter you come off as motherly. Your job is to influence and encourage not to mother. When you use words like…
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Sunday Message: When the Love doesn’t Match!!
You know you can wear mitch matched socks for awhile until something happens and you get caught. On the very day you were trying to be incognito you trip or fall or something happens that reveals you were out in…
