Ask Toi: Personal Questions Answered Part 1
I have said before when doing these Ask Toi when it comes to personal questions I reserve the right to not answer questions that I feel are too personal in nature. I will answer what I can when I see…
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Ask Toi: A man I’ve been dating for months has gone stale in communication, what should I do?
This sounds like he’s ghosting you. Ghosting is when someone you’re dating or dealing with no longer answers calls or text messages and is unavailable. First of all, understand that some folks avoid difficult conversations. He is definitely not interested…
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Monday Motivation: Christmas Edition
As the holidays are exactly 8 days away one of the things that I have changed is not waiting until the last-minute for everything. I have a few things to do but I am not allowing any of it to…
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Sunday Message: Stand in your Own Light
There’s so much expectations going on. I’m watching a lot of current events and hearing debates on all types of things. One thing to keep in mind is allowing people to find their way and stay in their own light….
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Christmas Fun: Story time with the Polar Express
So not bad for a Friday night but we decided to go to the Barnes and Nobles story time of the Polar Express reading by Chris Van Allsburg for the 30th celebration!! The reading included hot chocolate and cookies and…
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Operating In Offense
So today I was reminded of what it looks like to operate in offense. Operating in offense is when you are so offended by someone or something that you can’t hear what others are saying to you. You are snippy, rude,…
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What a wicked way to treat the girl that loves you
So I’m out and about today. While out a woman is behind me talking to another woman. The one woman asks where her husband was. Her answer was he just started chemotherapy and he’s home. So I’m like wow Lord…
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What I love about Thanksgiving
This is not a drill it’s Thanksgiving time. We are exactly one week away. I can’t wait. I love to eat. I love Thanksgiving for a few reasons. A lot of them has to do with how people act. It’s…
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Ask Toi: My Husband Says I Mother Him, How do I stop this behavior?
You will only stop what you accept is bad behavior. Your husband can tell you that you are mothering him but if you make excuses, it won’t change. You are not his mother but is wife. You can’t expect this…
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Fusing Friendships
One of the biggest challenges when I moved to Philly years ago was leaving what I was comfortable being around. I was used to my set of friends. I was used to my town. I knew how to get everywhere….
