Self Care

Any of US Could be Kenneka?
Unless you live under a rock you have heard the story of Kenneka Jenkins, the young lady who was found in a freezer in the Crowne Plaza hotel in Chicago. This story has had twitter and social media in a…

Self Care/Self Improvement
September is a lot of things. I don’t know what it is about September but its a jammed pack month. However this month is self-care and self-improvement month. So if you follow this blog, and on any social media feed…

Approvals Aren’t Always Necessary
We live in an approval type world. We live for likes and shares. We live for someone to high-five our moves. There are times when this is just not necessary. There are times when this will not happen, what are…

Hurt People Hurt People But You Can Do Better
It would be nice if we lived in a world where we all could uplift one another. This is simply and unfortunately not the case. We live in the world where with the change in political climate we spend hours…

Camp is Over, Lessons were learned
Yay I do apologize for all of the parents who weren’t able to get your children into camp. This blog is not meant to stir up any ill feelings you had having to scramble for your little people. I feel…

Ask Toi: I got questions….
So because I haven’t been doing a good job in answering questions that come in publicly so today is an Ask Toi drop. I am answering a series of questions publicly that I have already answered readers privately. Looks like…

Passive Aggression only Serves You
Being passive aggressive in your personality only serves YOU. Think about it, passive aggressiveness is the ability to avoid confrontation. So this is the type that will say little slick things out of their mouth, will indirectly snub a person…