We survived 7 Years of Parenting
On May 26, 2009 I was in a room with my parents and the doctors as my mom basically had to nudge me into making the decision to have a C-section. I had my best friend, my boyfriend at the…
Wellness
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Ask Toi: How do you deal when you find out that your gf/bf isn’t in it for the long haul?
One I’m really sorry that this is happening to you. The longer you have been with your girlfriend/boyfriend will mean the more hurt you are experiencing. It can be a gut check when you think the one on your team…
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Ask Toi: Is it okay for married couples to vacation separetely?
I do not think its an issue depending on the situation. If you are taking a guys or girls only trip than there’s nothing wrong with it. I don’t believe that once you are married you have to cut off…
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Conservation Of Energy
Albert Einstein once said, energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only be changed from one form to another.” So of course given that I spent a lot of my energy this weekend getting fueled for the week I…
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Ask Toi: I am a father who doesn’t fix things, how do I teach my son?
I would say experience is the best teacher. You will need to get up under another man who can fix things and learn from him. This could be family or friends. In this age of technology you can learn skills…
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Is Your Want To Broke?
Well, well, well its one of those days where I feel like I can literally float on water. It’s that good of a day. I’m glad about that. I was talking with my mom this morning and the conversation of…
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Summer on my Mind
I don’t know about you but me and Summer go together. We legit have a love affair that spans over time. I love summer. Today is cold, like the cold where I need to make life decisions on turning the…
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They Are Always Like That
That is one of the biggest excuses I think I get when people want to defend other people’s bad behavior. You hear it all the time. You get into a confrontation and even with all of the best intentions someone…
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Time To Go!!
So this weekend was an overload of encouragement, answers, and enlightenment. Most of the time I do not have individual time to just sit and soak in good vibes as much as I would like. I take time out for…
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Maybe He Doesn’t Hit
So I was doing my normal surfing on social media and came across the #maybehedoesnthit movement. I was truly inspired and sad about the stories from both men and women about the abuse they dealt with in their relationships. I…
